“I come from a Muslim culture, so I really had to negotiate some strong societal expectations. From the age of 16, my parents really wanted me to get married, and I have had to battle this conflict with my family between education and marriage,” she notes.
After much negotiation, she finally received her parent’s approval and soon after arrived on campus to begin her studies.
The first thing that struck her was the multicultural diversity among the students.
Fathima recalls, “In class the life experiences of the students are so different. There are so many nationalities and different cultures, religions, ways of life. Sitting in class for one hour listening to everyone is like reading 10 books at a time.”
Whilst studying at Monash, Fathima travelled to Australia with the Monash University Debating team to participate in the University Debating Championships and also spent two months in South Africa on an Oxfam Internship, working with refugees with HIV/Aids.
It was during this time in South Africa that she was motivated to create the Monash University Volunteer program. Upon returning to Malaysia, she worked diligently to set up the university wide program aimed at enabling students and communities to share their skills with disadvantaged members of society. Commencing in 2010 with 34 students, the program now boasts more than 147 students who volunteer their skills in various areas including soup kitchens, teaching refugees, assisting at the zoo and working with special needs children.
Fathima is due to finish her studies this year and she hopes to continue working in the humanitarian area.
For girls out there considering tertiary education, Fathima strongly advises, “Do it, fight for it. Going to university is the single most important thing in a Sri Lankan Muslim girl’s life.” |